Physical vs Spiritual Hunger

Hunger.  You hear about it all the time.  There are millions of people around the world who don't eat on a daily basis.  There are numerous organizations out there whose sole mission is to help stamp out hunger.  This is great and the efforts of many to feed those in need of physical nourishment should be rewarded.  However, the same effort that we see to feed the physical body, should be multiplied in order to stimulate and feed spiritual hunger.

According to TheFreeDicitionary.com, hunger is defined as "[a] strong desire or need for food; [t]he discomfort, weakness, or pain caused by a prolonged lack of food." or "[a] strong desire or craving".  I think this captures the meaning of hunger both spiritually and physically, but going further is where the two diverge. Your body is designed so that when it needs energy, nutrients, and/or fluids your body sends signals which alert you to eat or drink something.  The longer you go without nurishment, the weaker the body becomes.  However, once you find food, you consume it until you are no longer hungry and the body becomes satisfied until the next hunger episode hits.  In this case, you are continuously driven to consume by your body's needs.

When we look at spiritual hunger, something different occurs.  The longer you go without spiritual nourishment, the less hungry you become.  It is the moment that we start to read and learn more about Jesus, the more our appetite for a walk with Him grows.  It is like watching a child grow.  For example, yesterday, I went into an auto parts store and my son was overwhelmed with all the stuff in there.  He asked, "Daddy, what's this?".  I answered him and then he would ask another question based on my answer.  Then he would move to another item and ask what that was.  His hunger for knowledge of his surroundings grew as I fed him the answers to his questions.  This is how your walk with Christ should be.  As you grow, you should want to know more about "him that is able to keep you from falling" (see Jude 1:24).  In this case, your hunger is stimulated by the more "spiritual food" you eat instead of a long drought of spiritual consumption.

You see, the moment we become content with all that we know about Jesus and the Word of God, is the moment we start to lose hunger.  We start to lose that aching and nagging feeling to consume all that God has for us to know (which is endless).  As for many who read the Bible, they have different meanings revealed to them by the Holy Spirit, even if it is the same passages.  In that vain, the Bible never grows old or irrelevant which means you can never stop learning and receiving revelations.  

As a normal person in the world, you never know it all and we continue learning until we leave this earth.  Don't fall into the trap of believing you have gotten all that you can get from your walk with Christ.  Always seek more knowledge in Him, and never allow your spiritual hunger to be yanked from your life.

"Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled."  -- Matthew 5:6

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We All Have Wilderness Moments

You know, it has been a while since my last blog entry, but it has not been because of a lack of things to write about.  It has been due to lack of dedication and just the moments of life.  I think that moment has been one in the "wilderness" for me.

"What is this", you may be asking.  Well, I would like to define it as a time where we go through different parts of our lives led by the Holy Spirit, but "seemingly" out of the presence of God the Father.  I put the word seemingly in quotes because we know that God never leaves or forsakes us (see Deuteronomy 31:5-6).  However, it is a time where we seem to draw away from everyone.  It is a time where sometimes we exert ourselves physically and we can get lost spiritually if we aren't careful.   It can be a time of reflection and a time of growth.  Let's look at Luke 4:1-13.

(1) Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, left the Jordan and was led by the Spirit into the wilderness, (2) where for forty days he was tempted[a] by the devil. He ate nothing during those days, and at the end of them he was hungry. (3) The devil said to him, “If you are the Son of God, tell this stone to become bread.” (4) Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone.’[b]” (5) The devil led him up to a high place and showed him in an instant all the kingdoms of the world. (6) And he said to him, “I will give you all their authority and splendor; it has been given to me, and I can give it to anyone I want to. (7) If you worship me, it will all be yours.” (8) Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God and serve him only.’[c]” (9) The devil led him to Jerusalem and had him stand on the highest point of the temple. “If you are the Son of God,” he said, “throw yourself down from here. (10) For it is written: “‘He will command his angels concerning you to guard you carefully; (11) they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.’[d]” (12 Jesus answered, “It is said: ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’[e]” (13) When the devil had finished all this tempting, he left him until an opportune time.

The above verses show a time when Jesus was alone in the wilderness (as a human, but not in the spirit).  If you noticed, He was led by the Spirit into the wilderness, but Jesus was tempted all the while by the devil (an evil spirit).  During this time He fasted, but He kept His mind focused and fought the devil with the Word of God.

We know that Jesus was tempted in the wilderness.  I think this is pretty obvious.  What may not be obvious are the conditions in which He went into the wilderness. Most of the time we only focus on the temptation part.  We know that Jesus was God in a human body.  He is not like many of us, but He still sweat, hungered, thirsted, and bled just like we do.  So, let's look at a few things.

Jesus, went into the wilderness by Himself. Granted, He was led by the Holy Spirit, He was still alone.  There was no buddy system in his wilderness moment.  At the same time, the devil showed up.  If you have not noticed, it is typically when we are alone that we can either plug into God to the highest degree or we can become distracted by the devil the most.  It is those moments of quietness, that we can be led by the Spirit or we can fall to temptation by the devil.  The question is how grounded are you in the Word to recognize the tricks of the enemy.  If the Spirit is leading you, then follow Him, no matter how difficult a particular moment in your life may seem.

Not only was Jesus alone, but he had been fasting for forty days.   Again, because He lived as a human, He of course hungered.  It is one thing to be alone, but to be alone where there is no food around, most people would go crazy and would eat anything.  This is where you have to be careful, because you could sell you soul to the devil in order to satisfy your flesh. When you are alone, tired and weak, we agree to some of the craziest things without even thinking about it.  Take Jacob and Esau for example.  Esau had been out working all day long in the fields and was dog tired when he got home.  Jacob, who could whip up a mean stew, knew his brother was hungry.  So, when Esau asked him for something to eat, Jacob seized the moment and tricked Esau into giving him his birthright.  Back then, the benefit of the first-born son was a big deal.  He got the birthright which meant there were privileges and/or possessions that he only would received.  Just think.  He gave this up all for a bowl of stew (see Genesis 25:28-32).  In the words of Esau, "Look, I am about to die...What good is the birthright to me?"  It is in our time of weakness that we become the most vulnerable and not being able to check our vulnerabilities can turn our wilderness moment into a lifetime of hell.

The last thing I want to point out is that Jesus recognized who He was.  He knew that He was in a fleshly body, but He also recognized He was the Son of God.  Also, He knew what the Word of God said.  If we recognize who we are and to who we belong, then we can conquer anything.  No devil or demonic spirit can derail us from our walk with the Lord.  Evil can try, but nothing can hold water to Jesus Christ, the Holy Ghost, and God the Father.

Yes we all have wilderness moments.  After all Jesus had one.  If Jesus had one what makes us think we are exempt from them?  As long as we recognize what we are going through and the potential pitfalls, we'll be alright with our mind on the Spirit who comforts and lead us.  Let no temptation pull your flesh down and let not desire pull you away from that which God has called you.   At some point, the trees will begin to thin and there will be a clearing to which the Son will shine upon your face as you come out of the wilderness.

Be blessed folks and have a good weekend!

Antoine

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Jesus Musik: JR's "God of Peace"

Absolutely beautiful song......

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Some Love & A Miracle

Today is a very special day for me.  Today marks the 1 year anniversary of my wife's (Deidra) kidney transplant.  This is not her first transplant (she received one from her mother in 1994), but rather her second and this time things seem to be even better than the first, but let me take you back.

In January 2009, unbeknown to my wife and I, she had already began to go into kidney failure.  It was not until later in the year that we found out this was the case. At first we thought she had just gotten sick from a virus, but this was only one problem. The virus caused us to place focus on the kidney and through a couple of biopsies, it was found that she was suffering from toxicity from one of her immunosuppressants.  In laymen terms, that meant that the very medicine that was suppose to stop her immune system from attacking her kidney was the one killing the kidney!  To me this is the equivalent of taking Advil for a minor headache and the medicine turns out to give you a migraine.  It was unimaginable to me that the medicine that suppose to keep her alive could kill her.  I just could not get that wrapped around my brain, but I had to learn that transplanted organs do not last forever. 

If you have never seen a person go through kidney failure, I would like to tell you, you do not want to see it.  it is not a pretty sight.  Once you hit a certain threshold of functionality, the kidney starts to shut down pretty fast.  I mean I saw the woman I love - the mother of my two children - grow sicker and sicker before my eyes every day.  As a man, you try to remain strong, but it's difficult to see a love one suffer and there is nothing you can do.  It is out of your control and only in the hands of God.  There is nothing you can do but pray, because kidneys do not grown on trees.  You canot go down to your local Wal-mart and buy one.  There are waiting lists and some are on them for 3 to 7 years!  Yes, I said years! So imagine, our situation.  You know that God can work all things out but when you are in the midst of a trial, it's tough to keep focus, but praying we did.

Love & A Miracle

Remember I said, you cannot go go your local department store and pick a kidney?  Well we were in need of one fast and in steps a little sister.  It's my wife's younger sister, Dionne.  Without hesitation, she stepped up to the plate and offered to donate her kidney.  Now, a lot goes into the process of giving a kidney.  You don't just say I will give mines and you go into surgery.  There are numerous tests done.  There is blood work done.  There are tests to see if you are the correct blood type (which there is a way around now due to technology).  There are urology tests.  So, it is no light task and there are always risks involved.  Any time you talk about cutting the body open to remove organs, there are inherent risks.  

Knowing all of these things, it was as though Dionne was bringing over a pie or cake.  No hesitation.  No grumbling. No complaining.  She willing went to the operating table for her sister.  As it turned out, the two were a perfect match (ie, bood type, markers, etc.)!  It couldn't have been any perfect!  I think they were so perfect the doctors were even a little amazed.  The good thing about a perfect match is that it reduces the number of medicines you have to take after the transplant, so Amen to that!

So, on March 24, 2010, Dionne went to bat for her sister and donated a kidney.  She had to lose a piece of one of her lower ribs in the process, but she did it.  A few hours later, the two were out of surgery and into recovery.  Dionne's recovery was fairly quick, but Deidra's was a little slower, however, you could see the instant impact of a new kidney.  My wife's face was beginning to clear from all the toxins in her body. Her skin was clearing.  It was as though some one had dropped some magic water on a withering rose and watching it brighten back up to a fully red open flower. That is the only way I could best describe it.

Today, both of the girls (sisters) are in perfect health. You would not even know that something had happened and that is how amazing God is.  Deidra is now a Certified Christian Life Coach with a focus on medical compliance.  In fact, it was just yesterday that she completed her certification in Human Behavior as a consultant (For more information you can visit her website at http://www.champscoaching.com).  All of this has happened within a years time!

One year ago today, I was feeling like a beat man.  I was worrying myself to death trying to figure out how to raise two children while unemployed and trying to be a caretaker for my wife.  Not so.  My wife could still be sick all while deteriorating in health.  Not so.  We could still be waiting for a kidney for years to come.  No so!  You see, the unselfish love of one sister gave life to another sister and I do have my mother-in law to thank for giving Deidra life so I could find my wife.  However, I have to give my sister-in law thanks for extending my family's life and for that I say thank you Dionne and love you.  I know you did not do it for me, but the by-product of your love yield a miracle for all of us!

Regards,

Antoine E. Hall

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"Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says." - James 1:22

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Waving Through Life

Have you every noticed how life just seems to ebb and flow?  You know, a series of ups and downs or highs and lows.  It just seems to be the way life works *shrug*.  By now, you know that when goin through life you can have high points and low points.  I do not know anyone who has stayed and either a high or low point for all their life.  At some point, life fluctuates and we have to adjust accordingly.

Those fluctuations can be considered waves.  The FreeDictionary.com describes a wave as,

A disturbance traveling through a medium by which energy is transferred from one particle of the medium to another without causing any permanent displacement of the medium itself.

This is a Physics definition, but I think we still can apply this to our lives.  The disturbance can be us and the medium can be life.  We move through life and as such, we cause things around us to move and shift.  They do not cause permanent damage to the life through which we are traveling, but it temporarily changes things around us.   Because the environment around us have an impact on us as well, we have series of ups and down as we go.

Many things can be modeled or described by waves and our life is no different.  The peaks or the high points can be the highs in our life.  Those are the times when things are going well.  The valleys (or troughs) are those low points in life.  Those can be trials, tests, training, etc. that prepare us for the accent back to the top of the wave.

A good example of this is when the Pharaoh of Egypt kept having these dreams and had Joseph removed from jail to explain to him the meaning. In Genesis 41:25-27, Joseph tells Pharaoh the meaning of his dreams (You should read all of Genesis 41 in your spare time).

(25) Then Joseph said to Pharaoh, “The dreams of Pharaoh are one and the same. God has revealed to Pharaoh what he is about to do. (26) The seven good cows are seven years, and the seven good heads of grain are seven years; it is one and the same dream. (27) The seven lean, ugly cows that came up afterward are seven years, and so are the seven worthless heads of grain scorched by the east wind: They are seven years of famine.

In his explanation we see that there will be seven good years in the land of Egypt, marked by seven bad years.    God was essentially telling them that there will be a peak followed by a trough and this is no different in how we move through life.

When we measure sound, waves (water), heart beats, etc.on a monitor, you see the up and down motion.  The moment the wave becomes a straight line, there is no sound, the water does not move, and a living person dies (no heart beat).  In life, it is natural for us to experience the things that we do, but the moment the ebbing and flowing cease to exist, so do we.

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Looking And Not Seeing

This morning on my commute to work, I was listening to Dr. David Jeremiah on the radio and he was talking about the parable of the Good Samaritan (see Luke 10:25-37).  Today, some of the things that I say are my own, sprinkled with some of Dr. Jeremiah's influence. So let's hop to it. 

 In the parable, Jesus tells of a man who was headed to Jericho from Jerusalem and was attacked by some robbers.  There, the man laid on the ground from his injuries and person after person passed by him.  They looked at the man, but they passed right by him.  The did not see him.  Antoine just what are you talking about?  Here, I will tell you.

Let's look at the movie Avatar by James Cameron.  In the movie, the natives, called Navi, would greet someone and say, "I see you".  Those who first saw the movie probably thought, "of course you see the person".  After all, they were standing right in front of them (at least I know I thought that). Later, we would know that "to see" someone is to understand them.  This is what the Good Samaritan did for the man who was robbed and beat. He understood the mans situation and took the time too help.  See, you can look at someone, but chose to focus your attention the other way.  You do not understand their situation.  You do not understand why they do what they do; act how they act; think how they think.  Given this, we can look at someone, but not see them at all.

You looked at the homeless man on the corner, but you did not see him.  You looked at alcoholic, but did not see them.  You looked at the child needing a big brother/sister, but did not see them.  It is easy to look the other way because that means we do not have to become involved.  To become involved would mean a cost to you and/or require you to give up something.  If we never can see past our own lives and what we have to do, how can we ever help our fellow brother and/or sister?  You know, Love our neighbor as we love ourselves (see Luke 10:27).

I have given money to people and offered to buy them food.  At the same time, I am guilty of choosing to look the other way.  We are all guilty of it.  The question is can you take a second to see someone?  If we can ever stop focusing on ourselves so much, we may be able to see someone when we look at them.

Regards,

Antoine E. Hall

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"Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says." - James 1:22

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I Really, Really, Want It!

Luke 14-28   For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?

We all have things that we want in life.  We see cars, homes, gadgets, and/or potential spouses and we just have to have them.  There are things that we did not have as a children growing up and as adults we tend to gravitate to those things because now we can afford them.  I have done this before and I think all of us have at some point.  The most important piece of the puzzle that we failed to realize is the "cost". 

In Luke 14:28, Jesus is telling the disciples to think something through before going forward with an idea.  He tells them you cannot build a tower if you do not have enough funds.  How would you know this?  Well, it is through proper planning.  With proper planning, different expenses start to flesh out and you can get a good idea what the cost will be.  When I go to the dictionary, it tells me that the word cost can mean, "To cause to lose, suffer, or sacrifice".   In the example of the tower, the cost could be money, time, and any other resources.  All of those are things that you can lose and/or sacrifice.  Given the definition of cost, I want us to think about the cost we incur when we have strong desires for certain items and/or people.  I am going to be transparent here for a minute because I was convicted this weekend, so here we go. 

When I was growing up, I had a few dogs but not all of them lived long.  I mean, what kid does not love having dogs around right?  Well after a while, there were no more dogs.  I always asked but the answer was no, so for many years, I went without a dog, but I always wanted one.   After about my Senior year of high school, my Dad came home with a puppy.  By that time, I got to spend a summer or so with him and then it was off to college.  In this case, I never really "grew up" with a dog around.

Now, fast forward.  I am grown and when I graduate from college and got married, what was one of the first things I purchased?  You got it.  A brand new dog.  Boy, I can say it was a good feeling. I loved having him around and it reminded me of good old times with my childhood dogs.  Then, reality began to hit me.  I started to realize why my parents did not want a dog around.  The are like having another child!  They are hard work to keep up.  They have to get shots, be groomed, walked, etc.  If you have had a sick dog at night and having to run to the Vet you understand that the cost can be quite expensive (monetarily & time wise).  I got what I always wanted, however, I never added up all of the cost.  My dog did not ask me to bring him home, but I chose to do it out of blind excitement and emotions.  Yep, so I had repent after conviction.  Also, I had to eat crow because my wife told me so, but I had to couldn't argue with the sounds of the Holy Spirit.

Everything has a cost associated with it and many times we only see the dollar amount, but fail to recognize other cost factors.  Do you really, really want a house?  Guess what, it not only costs a lot, but it has an enormous amount of responsibility.  If you get into a new home, gone are the days of calling property management to fix something.  Guess who has to pony up for that broken hot water heater or leaky toilet?  You.  If you get a leak in the roof, guess who has to have it repaired?  You.  When the grass needs cutting guess who does it?  You?  To make the lawnmower go, what do you need?  Gas. Guess, what, gas isn't free.  Count the Cost.

You want that brand new top of the line luxury car, right?  I know you just have to have it.  The question is do you fully understand the cost?  Not only does it cost money to bring the car home, but it costs even more to keep the car in good condition.  When something goes wrong, did stop to think that it may cost $500+ for a mechanic to plug up the computer to the car to ONLY diagnose the car (they haven' even started with repairs)? Did you take into account that the luxury car probably required top of the line tires to keep with the luxury experience?  Did you think about the interior that may be difficult to keep clean, because after all it is luxurious?  Count the cost.

I could keep going on and on but you get the point.  We are so emotionally driven by the lack of or the keeping up with the Jone's that we make silly decisions to satisfy a desire or want.  Everything has a cost.  The question is are you willing to pay the entire cost even when you realize it cost more than you really wanted to pay?

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Cleansing: It's OK to Slow Down (Replay)

I started to an entry today and as got about a paragraph into it, I realized that the topic sounded familiar.  Given this, I dug into the archives and found exactly what I wanted to say. It is amazing how things go full circle.  Be blessed folks.

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April 9, 2006

Good afternoon gang!

I pray that everyone is have a great hump day so far.  You know in the year 2006 we find ourselves always and forever on the go.  We are running to this meeting and running to that meeting.  We are working 14 and 15 hours a day, trying to have family time, trying to say hello to friends, participating in this organization and that organization.  When you think about it, where does God get his time in the day or week for that matter?  With so much going on, God and his Word tends to get pushed out of our daily lives.

Mark 6:31-32 says, "(31) And he said unto them, Come ye yourselves apart into a desert place, and rest a while: for there were many coming and going, and they had no leisure so much as to eat. (32) And they departed into a desert place by ship privately."

In this chapter of Mark, we find that John the Baptist has just been beheaded and his disciples found out and retrieved his body to be placed in a tomb.  After they had done this task they went to Jesus and He told them to go rest as you see from the verses above.  Although, Jesus was a very busy man, he still found time to slow down and smell the roses; slow down to pray.  See the next verse.

Mark 1:25 says, "And in the morning, rising up a great while before day, he went out, and departed into a solitary place, and there prayed."

Jesus always managed to slow down and to keep his eye on God.   In our lives we are typically the equivalent of driving down the road in a Ferrari doing 100mph.  When you look to the side everything is a blur and all you know is that you have a destination.  However, going this fast in life, you miss what God has to say to you.  He can catch you but you are always going to fast to notice him trying to talk to you.  But when you are driving your drop top Volkswagen Beetle, you see everything.  God can say hey, "look over there".  Then He can also say, turn here I want to show you something.  When God wants to show you something you probably will want to see it.  But if you are at 100mph in your Ferrari any slight distraction will cause you to wreck.

That's what happens in our lives.  God is out of the midst and minor distraction causes mental, physical, & spiritual crashes for us.  Slowing down, it's alright.  When you do, God will reveal to you those questions you ask.  He will show you your needs versus your wants.  He will show you your faults and how to correct them.  You just have to be willing to drive slow down enough to smell the roses.

Be blessed folks and have a great day!

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A Big Mistake

God, are you serious?  You must be mistaken!  What just happened to me should not have happened?  What just happened to my friend should not have happened?  My career was suppose to go different than what it did!  God you must have me confused with someone else!

Sounds familiar?  Have you ever asked or made one of the statements above?  If you have, you might want to keep something in mind.  God does not make a mistake.  Remember that He is omniscient.  He knows everything that is happening to you and around you.   Luke 12:7 says, "Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows."  If He knows this very detail about you, why would we think decisions He has made were not purposefully made?

The biggest mistake that we can make is believing that He made a mistake.  We can get into a lot of trouble when we start to question God because if left unresolved, you can start to doubt.  If you doubt then you open a door for the enemy into your life and that's a downhill slope none of us wish to climb up.  

"God is mighty, but despises no one; he is mighty, and firm in his purpose." - Job 36:5

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Lost In Denominations

Catholicism.  Baptist. Methodist. Lutheran.  All of these are different "branches" of Christianity and all of them have their own set of governing rules which make them who they claim to be. According to Wikipedia's List of Christian denominations, "there are reported to be approximately 38,000 Christian denominations".  I mean, WOW!  Really, WOW!   I bring this up because I saw a bill board this morning for a Methodist church that advertised coming to experience Methodism in a different way.  

Methodism?  I understand that Methodism is the practice of being a Methodist, however, what happened to being just a Christian?  At the heart of the matter, Jesus should be brightly shining but sometimes that may not be the case.  We can get lost in ourselves and get caught up in positions and titles.  We can become frustrated with other people in the church because we think they are not "doing church" the right way. The problem with this is that we start to cut each other off from other denominations and then we justify it by saying this is the why we do what we do and believe what we believe.  The more you start to believe and focus on what you do rather than Jesus, you add further division into the umbrella of Christianity (Actually, we should say that we follow Jesus, because not all those who call themselves Christians follow the tenants of Jesus.  I got that from my wife.  Thanks hun!)   

In Matthew 12:22-26;30, it says:

(22) Then they brought him a demon-possessed man who was blind and mute, and Jesus healed him, so that he could both talk and see. (23) All the people were astonished and said, Could this be the Son of David? (24) But when the Pharisees heard this, they said, It is only by Beelzebul, the prince of demons, that this fellow drives out demons. (25) Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them, Every kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and every city or household divided against itself will not stand. (26) If Satan drives out Satan, he is divided against himself. How then can his kingdom stand? (30) Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters.

In these verses, we see that Jesus has healed a man who was possessed, but the Pharisees simply say this can only be the results of Beelzebul.  Jesus then explains that if this was the case, then Satan would be going against himself and his mission to steal, kill, and destroy (see John 10:10).  In order for a team to accomplish its goal, all its members have to be on the same page, regardless of its purpose.  When a team's goal is to head North and different members of the team decide they wish to go in all other directions but North, it is impossible for that team to reach its goal.  It just cannot happen.

Simply, we cannot become lost in all the denominations out there.  We have to keep Jesus our focus and stop worrying about the intricacies of how you do church.  Believe and keep your eyes "[t]o him who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you before his glorious presence without fault and with great joy" and all the other distractions will fall by the wasteside (see Jude 1:24).

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You Cannot Do It All By Yourself

Happy Year Folks!

I hope that you all had a Merry Christmas as well!  It feels good to be able to jump back into writing, so without delay, I want to go to Exodus 18:13-22.  It is a little lengthy, but work with me.  There, it says:

(13) The next day Moses took his seat to serve as judge for the people, and they stood around him from morning till evening. (14) When his father-in-law saw all that Moses was doing for the people, he said, "What is this you are doing for the people? Why do you alone sit as judge, while all these people stand around you from morning till evening?" (15) Moses answered him, "Because the people come to me to seek God's will. (16) Whenever they have a dispute, it is brought to me, and I decide between the parties and inform them of God's decrees and instructions." (17) Moses' father-in-law replied, "What you are doing is not good. (18) You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out. The work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone. (19) Listen now to me and I will give you some advice, and may God be with you. You must be the people's representative before God and bring their disputes to him. (20) Teach them his decrees and instructions, and show them the way they are to live and how they are to behave. (21) But select capable men from all the people—men who fear God, trustworthy men who hate dishonest gain—and appoint them as officials over thousands, hundreds, fifties and tens. (22) Have them serve as judges for the people at all times, but have them bring every difficult case to you; the simple cases they can decide themselves. That will make your load lighter, because they will share it with you.

You know what?  I probably needed to read and meditate on this verse all while growing up and probably to this day.  How many of us try to do things all by ourselves?  After all, as American's we pride ourselves on getting to the point where we are independent and can do it all alone.  Independence is like a mark that says, "I did it and I can do it all by myself!".  This is good and there is nothing wrong with independence, until it gets in the way of getting help when you need it.

It is hard to go back to ask people for help when you've portrayed the role that "you got it".  Sometimes, it can even be a hard pill to swallow, but if you will just step outside yourself to see yourself, you'd realize that you cannot do everything alone.  As in verse 18, "...you will only wear yourselves out."  If you are use to going at it alone that is fine, but keep in mind that you have to be able to recognize when you need help to "make your load lighter".

If someone offers help, it is probably because they see something that you do not see.  Re-evaluate your situation and see where you may need help.  After all, the help that comes may be the bridge you need to get over your current road block.

Be easy folks and have a great Monday!

Regards,

Antoine E. Hall

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"Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says." - James 1:22

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